The things I see or hear people say boggle my mind. I kept telling my self I don’t need to figure everything out about what a persons thinking. I hope I’m just not the only person feeling like I do.
Today I feel a little defeated; when normally, I don’t care and walk around not giving a fuck. I just feel awesome and like I can handle anything.
But here’s the thing. I feel like if someone really felt a certain way and didn’t like it they would tell me. I can’t read their minds! I was talking to a friend last night who said he doesn’t expect me to change, because when it came down to it, no one could change me. He said your just Abby. If no one can accept some of your flaws then that’s always been their problem.
My problem is I apparently demand too much attention. Though, I feel personally if anyone needed space from me, they could tell me respectfully, and I would back off. I realize this isn’t something I do just to my bf, dad, no- I do this with everyone. I feel I have a good enough reason to act the way I do, (which is more than usually unintended by the way) but no one stops to think that there might actually be a reason. they judge and talk shit and want to argue with me that there is something wrong with me being who I am. Right now, just do yourself a favor.
Oh and yeah one more thing.
Im not the girl who always has to have the last word
Im the girl who sits there in a cig in her mouth not giving a fuck and already over it.
Common fucking sense is don’t make other’s feel like shit if you don’t want to be treated that way; Especially with an attitude. I gave you the respect of coming to you personally about what you said, that doesn’t mean your feelings over a situation you didn’t like gives you a reason to make me feel stupid.
If you took it personally when it wasn’t the reaction you wanted don’t lash out just fix it there was nothing to be said. yes I called you a party pooper , at that point I wasn’t serious, so that wasn’t intended to have you give me an attitude and take it more personally when you didn’t explain why it upset you in the first place. Nor express who upset it made you feel. Its just face book, regardless if it’s your post or not doesn’t mean you get to pick and choose what people say. No one cares enough to take things seriously on it.You have the choice to delete words not feelings. Coming to you and telling you I’m offended isn’t rude, its trying to fix where it all went wrong because I care enough about you to do that. I don’t let my father, my best friend, or anyone talk down to me or with an attitude. If you see this look
you better hope I walk away. Adults don’t make comments like: its not anyone’s choice to feel the way you do but yours, If it’s “only FB” then you shouldn’t be upset, and you need to check yourself. No teens and kids say that. I will cuss because immaturity at an older age than me is indescribably irritating to me to deal with. I don’t argue with teens, I want to talk to an Adult.
"The fact that you’re struggling doesn’t make you a burden. It doesn’t make you unlovable or undesirable or undeserving of care. It doesn’t make you too much or too sensitive or too needy. It makes you human. Everyone struggles. Everyone has a difficult time coping, and at times, we all fall apart. During these times, we aren’t always easy to be around — and that’s okay.
No one is easy to be around one hundred percent of the time. Yes, you may sometimes be unpleasant or difficult. And yes, you may sometimes do or say things that make the people around you feel helpless or sad. But those things aren’t all of who you are and they certainly don’t discount your worth as a human being. The truth is that you can be struggling and still be loved. You can be difficult and still be cared for. You can be less than perfect, and still be deserving of compassion and kindness.”